I ask this for myself. he is retired and I have to continue working for nearly 20 years after, I am not going to be too pleased. trust me. Does your boyfriend want for you to have another child, or children when you marry? I had to dig him out of the MGTOW [men going their own way] mindset, but he was so far gone it eventually drove me away.â âI dated a guy 15 years ⦠I would say 80% of guys I've been with have been at least 10 years older than me and age was never an issue. I think it depends more on where both people have been in life than the number. Know When the Difference Is Too Large. not only is it a big difference, it is also kinda illegal. It is good and we do have disagreements but we talk about everything. I'm sorry I should of specified. Male. And with my 'boyfriend' i dont feel any age difference, we have our moments of being completely immature, and other times we have moments of being an old couple. Age difference⦠too much? Youâll become an efficiency machine. My kids are 5.5 years apart, now 10.5 years old and 5 years old. That's 12 years age difference and no I don't think it's too big. Is that too much of an age difference for it to work? An 18 year age difference is a bit too much for siblings, amirite? If it's the other way around you're adults it's all good. ... âI remember thinking we have so many things in common, but the age difference could be problematic. Molly_Moo. So I donât think age is much of a predictor for the success of a relationship beyond the initial stages. Its not even the age, just the way he carried himself. My fiance is 11 years older than me, so to answer your question, no 10 years is not too much! and love is not measure by years but by moments! So, I just got out of a relationship and am new to the dating world. The resulting number is the lower limit that you can acceptably date. How similar are you? We're seeing more and more couples with age gaps as it becomes more socially acceptable. I've dated significantly older, and there was usually more fun and chemistry involved than when I went out with women my age. 10 years is too much for a 16 year old. Log in or subscribe to read and leave comments. So, I just got out of a relationship and am new to the dating world. 3. Then it is fine because it is legal. Your kids may more likely become good buddies when theyâre so close in age. Male. When I asked James about it, he said it ⦠They don't matter, either. and we barely had anything in common. That said, so little time between children can be hard on you. But later in life when e.g. Certainly not. 10 years older and other person was more mature than I was, he had problems with ME. My fiance is 11 years older than me, so to answer your question, no 10 years is not too much! The span ranged from men marrying women as much as 20 years older to women marrying men as much as 25 years older; the average age difference between husband and wife was three years. Most Helpful Girls. Some relationships with age gaps really flourish. the heart knows no age! Agree to share in all future vet bills as well. Is it wrong? 2. How shallow! Like any factor that distinguishes a couple from the mainstream, however, it is best to consider all the implications of your age difference before you enter into a committed relationship. They have a 20 year gap. 8 years ago. Are both of you comfortable with this difference, not just today at 39 and 29, but in the future when you're both older? In age-gap couples, men are more apt to have a younger than an older spouse, with 10 percent having a spouse who is six-to-nine years younger, and 5 percent marrying a woman 10 or more years ⦠The answer is NO. She was still very much a "child" and worried about unimportant materialistic stuff. Male. Further, agree that if one of the two of you leaves the area — for example moving 100 or more miles away — that the one who stays will get complete custody of the dog. People who shake their heads or mutter nasty things can get lost!! We're seeing more and more couples with age gaps as it becomes more socially acceptable. Is a 10 year age difference between the guy and girl (guy 10 years older than girl) too much for a serious relationship to work? I know I'm right. Age differences are fine, but there may be some issues with each other's families accepting it, friends meeting each other, college work vs. career work, etc. I voted yes because I see you are "under 18". I am finding out that many men my age are not interested in women 30 and up. After a one-year relationship, I've fallen in love with a man who is 10 years younger. At what point does the age difference become scandalous? And My Mums Friend Is also 10 Years Younger then her husband and there still together. when i was 16 i was with a 19 year old. Well, for about a month it's an 11 year age difference but that's besides the point. It depends. But when it comes to our own relationships, both ⦠He became insecure and jealous. But even adults are often not close friends with their siblings, depending on their personalities. and we barely had anything in common. you have to be 18 in most places before you can do anything with anyone more than (i think) 6 years older than yourself. 10 years is too much for a 16 year old. Similarity predicts relationship satisfaction in long-term relationships (Amodio ⦠8 years ago. He didnât have his life together and since he was a Marine and went through a divorce, he was cut off from his emotions. Should I lose weight in my legs or just begin to gain muscle? We seem great together, but I am concerned about the age difference. Commenting on NewsOK requires a NewsOK Pro or Oklahoman subscription. In general, marital satisfaction decreased as the age difference increased. My previous husband was 10 years older than my current husband, and he was too old for me. It is fine at any age of puberty. Ten years is not too much. Is a 10-year age gap too much? If you're attracted to someone who is older, then go for it. The voters have decided that this post is right! Siblings are great, no matter the age difference. Twitter. A 10-year age gap does not mean that you have nothing in common, but make sure you are each comfortable with the way you live your daily lives. My boyfriend for over a year now is 10 years older then me. Add message | Report | See all For rule-related involvement (relationships), 60-year-old men are stating that the minimum acceptable age is around 40, which does map much more closely to the ruleâs predictions. Ten years age difference is not really significant once the two people are in their mid twenties and older, but when you are younger, yes, ten years is a lot. This exchange can be a healthy and positive affirmation of the deep feelings you have for one another. There are no hard and fast rules. Follow. Yeah, that's what kicks it, if the generation gap between the two can't come to a close or same terms. It can be difficult - I am not totally against it but I am a bit biased - I was in one with a 10 year gap that didn't work - I don't like dumping all over possible relationship but I would be extra wary of an age gap relationships. I'd give it to you under or over 18. This is a serious question and kind of embarrassing, but hopefully I get some advice on here. Then I had a very serious relationship with a 37 year old when I was 21. Why does a female friend continue to chase a guy she likes & the guy likes her too but it’s clear he does not want to date anyone. How has your family, friends and loved ones reacted to your relationship? But it depends on the two people and their maturity levels. Sam Share 2 16. Female. What random things have you seen in other people's windows? If an older man is seeking a young woman just to re-assure himself that he is still sexually appealing, or if a younger man is dating an older woman just because itâs his way of seeking security, then the relationship is doomed from the very beginning. Problem is boys don't start puberty until age 13. 4 years older and other person was way too immature. Is 10 years too much of an age difference? With more than a decade between them, what ⦠I am finding out that many men my age are not interested in women 30 and up. reply report. I think as long as you're mature enough and both of you are willing, go ahead. Is 5 years too much of a age difference? 58. Female. If both people are mature, and responsible and open, then of course it could work. It is always mentally and physically healthy to marry someone your age ⦠Iâm a senior, heâs a freshman. Studies have found partners with more than a ten-year gap in age experience social disapproval. This can best be done by opening up to each other with an open and honest dialogue. As to who gets Pepper over the holidays, I'll leave that one up to you. I know several couples with similar or greater age gaps that are very happy. but if a 15 year old is dating a 25 year old, then it gets creepy. Male. and love is not measure by years but by moments! Updates: +1 y. I went out with him and decided I don't like him. What was the best message you've ever received here? I dated a 19 year old when I was 27 and it was odd, didn't work and didn't last long. Well if you are in your 20's he is 10 then yes it's bad. the heart knows no age! distance also will not make a difference ⦠Letâs take for example the age gap between someone born on April 17 1990 and someone born on August 29 1994. 40 years old. I am the youngest of 6 kids. The naysayer's say no. 14 seems too young to be dating, no matter the age of the guy, and when one is that young the age difference is more important. Distributed by Creators Syndicate. Person 2 is older than Person 1 with 4 years, 4 months, 12 days. If the couple is older there is a good chance it will work. Here are four things to consider: 1. Accept you might be in different places in your lives. Is 10 years too much of an age gap when it comes to dating someone? Age difference is not much of an issue if the intentions of both the partners are honest. For rule-related involvement (relationships), 60-year-old men are stating that the minimum acceptable age is around 40, which does map much more closely to the ruleâs predictions. You couldn't help but feel a little jealous and didn't really get what all of the baby fuss was about. Firstly, it depends on your specific life stages, regardless of your individual ages and regardless of your age differences. The few eyebrows 25 & 34 may raise now would be gone in 5 years nevermind later in life. Vote on the post to say if you agree or disagree. Each person is brought up in different environments, with their different sensitivities to their surroundings. Although it was a big age gap (I was a surprise, obviously) it was really fun. Contrary to a pp's experience, neither of our children feels like an only child; each is very involved in the other's life, and they play together a lot. Falling in love with a woman 10, 15, 20 years older, or more can be exhilarating. Dear Can We: Yes, relationships with age differences can succeed. You are 19 and he is 31. 10 years younger and other person was way too immature. Age difference is not much of an issue if the intentions of both the partners are honest. 12 years is no big deal. We're seeing more and more couples with age gaps as it becomes more socially acceptable. After a one-year relationship, I've fallen in love with a man who is 10 years younger. Age shouldn't matter as long as the rest of the relationship doesn't have too many red flags. I'm 16 ⦠Is a 12 year age difference too much? (For the sake of this article, weâll define an age difference as five years or more.) 4 years younger and other person was way too immature. But, heâs SO much more ⦠reply #3. kallee6393. Researchers analyzed over ⦠Ten years is not too much. My husband and I are excitedly awaiting the birth of our first child. The age difference between both should not be too much that your attitude clash and finally rush your marriage towards its inevitable end. age families work. Assuming him being older does not mean he comes with too much baggage. answer #2. (By the way, we both look younger than we actually are). Carry on and enjoy!! Male. Just like I was when I was at that age, yet at 27 I was thinking "I'm looking at gardening projects." The biggest age gap I've had was 18 years. John Gray is the author of “Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.” If you have a question, write John in care of this newspaper, or by email at: www.marsvenus.com. age difference? Is it an unreal expectation for a late-30s guy to ⦠If so, are you willing to do so? in love. Is there any issue that your teen has about this age difference? Dear John: I am a 39-year-old woman with two children, ages 4 and 13. After all, you don't want Pepper having his own frequent flier account. Age is no guarantee of closeness. Jason is now 50, Rosie 30. I think our age difference would have been problematic when I was in my 70âs, but she left in for a man with a 14 year age difference less physically fit then me. Nope. We don't hit and we don't past judgment and pull the age card, we work through our differences like normal people because he is my friend before he is my boyfriend, lover and anything else. Though they both knew they were done looking, the age difference was still a consideration. My parents have a 20+ year age difference so you're fine (unless you're underage (which you are lml) just be careful and if you can wait until you do turn 18). Ten years is not too much. At what point does the age difference become scandalous? How much of an age difference is too much? Likewise, couples with a four to six year gap showed greater satisfaction than those with a seven-plus year gap. but right now. I think once the younger one gets over 25 there's not much in a 5 - 10 age difference. 20 Things Siblings With A 10-Year Age Gap Will Know. Like if you're 22 and he's 32..That's not weird. The late Anthony Quinn was 81 when he impregnated a 19-year-old. We are totally happy and so far, the age difference is a non-issue for us. It works when the younger person is mature for their age, the the older person is also mature but still young at heart. I am, of course, the 20-year-old. How much of an age difference is too much? If you're in your under 18, let say 17, he must be 7.. yes, yes that's too young. It's Best Not To Think About It Too MuchIn a Reddit thread on couples with major age differences, ⦠After a one-year relationship, I've fallen in love with a man who is 10 years younger. So, if youâre 30, no younger than 22. 4 years younger and other person was way too immature. A relationship age gap bigger than 10 years often comes with its own set of issues. Leah says one of her biggest concerns when considering a man 10 years younger was whether he had the maturity to understand her needs and take care of her. Iâm 18, heâs 15. But I can understand your parents concerns. :) But it truly depends on your maturity. "Our age difference does not really affect us, ⦠I am aware there are possibilities where two people can successfully date with an age ⦠A 10-year difference is 39 percent, and a 20-year age gap has a jaw-dropping 95 percent chance of ending in divorce. It's still the same 20 years but this is to me is too much. Dear John: I am a 39-year-old woman with two children, ages 4 and 13. Love can be fickle, and we donât always fall for the right ⦠Male 10 or more years older than female: 852: 4,576: 10.86: 7.5: Male 6 to 9 years older than female: 1,010: 6,935: 12.87: 11.36: Male 2 to 5 years older than female: 2,237: 20,516: 28.51: 33.61: Within 1 year of each other: 2,234: 20,344: 28.48: 33.33: Female 2 to 5 years older than male: 830: 5,981: 10.58: 9.8: Female 6 to 9 years older than male: 364: 1,682: 4.64: 2.76 That makes you wonder doesn't it? Or, if you get up there in age and prefer younger, then that's also wonderful. Dear Pop: Consider a joint custody arrangement, as do other divorced couples when a dog, cat or other beloved pet, becomes a point of contention. I don't care how many social constructs of people oppose me. Women are usually more mature than men, so a longing for older men is completely acceptable to me. 0 0. 10 years younger and other person was way too immature. After analysing 3,000 people, it found that couples with a five-year age gap are 18 per cent more likely to split up than those of the same age. 10 years younger and other person was way too immature. A 4 and a 10 year old are really not going to "play" together and be best friends, but kids who are 2-3 years apart may not be best buds, and a 6 year old boy and 3 year old girl may not have much in common or interest in playing together either. No, that's not my kid, ... Parents are too old and gross to being doing the deed. From my personal experience, I know several relationships I would call successful, married for decades without any current signs of marriage issues, with significant age gaps. Now, if the man or woman is old enough to be their companionâs mom or dad, theeen itâs a little iffy. You may find that your "type" just happens to be older. when i was 16 i was with a 19 year old. Male. The oldest is 16 years older than me and he always took good care of me, even though I sometimes resented it ⦠10 years younger and other person was way too immature. All questions are kept anonymous, and will be paraphrased. â10-year age gap, pretty sure it makes no difference.â âYes. If you love each other, then that's all that matters. We get on really well but I am worried about the age gap as there is quite a difference. but right now. Is 5 years age difference too much? Is a 10-year age gap too much? I Have never noticed the age differences in people, only their personalities. Dear John: Just a quick question: In a divorce, who gets our beloved dog, Pepper, a 4-year-old black Labrador? But 10 years doesn't seem as big of a difference as 15-20 years when it comes to maturity and energy levels, so I'd say, if you're really interested in each other, go for it. 18 is 7 years... so sex at 13 or 14 is a good age for sex. 10 years older and other person was more mature than I was, he had problems with ME. Never miss a thing with GirlsAskGuys notifications on your browser. Example of an age difference calculation. If she is 16 and he is 23 then the age difference is too much, especially because one is a minor and too much risk of him being charged with illegal activities. Still, I feel that I never will find another man like him. I have had my share of women think I am "too old" for them. It works when the younger person is mature for their age, the the older person is also mature but still young at heart. Some relationships with age gaps really flourish. It works when the younger person is mature for their age, the the older person is also mature but still young at heart. We get on really well but I am worried about the age gap as there is quite a difference. 15-year age gap. A 20-Year Age Gap Makes No Difference. For conventional man and woman I would say this a healthy limit, any more would be too much. Go for honest answers to your most difficult questions and if you like what you hear, follow your heart. I mean later on in life when I'm in my 20s. A 20-Year Age Gap Makes No Difference. But people can get pretty hung up on the topic of age once they find out that woman is 5 or even 10 years younger than you. And you can expect a similar reaction if sheâs much older than you, too. I am 17 and I have started seeing a man ten years older than me. Will a 20-year-old and a 32-year-old be able to have a relationship? We seem great together, but I am concerned about the age difference. if he makes you happy and you get along well then go for it. 5. Thanks for listening. 4 years older and other person was way too immature. They get along fabulously, and are more loving and much less competitive than many sibling pairs we know who are much closer in age. Share . I am a 32 year old woman dating a 24 year old man. They will love each other, but they probably won't be close friends, until possibly they are adults. Maturity. Plus, there is never a guarantee of kids being close friends, no matter how close in age they are. Add Opinion. trust me. If an older man is seeking a young woman just to re-assure himself that he is still sexually appealing, or if a younger man is dating an older woman just because itâs his way of seeking security, then the relationship is doomed from the very beginning. The only difference is were you raped or not. distance also will not make a difference ⦠But it depends on the two people and their maturity levels. âWe were both really scared,â Ms. Axelrod said. Yes, it's usually too much of a difference. She thinks she can change his mind about dating. 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